On one of our many (now few) 'sojourns' of kurta-buying and comfort-food-eating Sh said that she believes that if one spends enough time with a person, it is possible to fall in love.
In-conversation. In conversations. Emails of endings and beginnings. Pampering. of hearts and heads. Through vacuums and crossed-wires. Between lines. and damning the expectations.
There have been questions flying back and forth in my head. Part of a larger question. For distance. and the mediating I have done recently. About hyped connections and fuzz. Mirages of comfort shared. or lack thereof. For not seeking. yet finding. For seeking and not finding. For choosing when there's really no need to. For finding onself and for rediscovering.
For the common sense I have prided on imparting. But because this time I did not have too many answers that convinced.
For being unfair. For black and white and charcoal grey.
Monogamous in one relationship and polygamous in the rest? For post-modernism in relationships.
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